How to Be a Business Bestie

As entrepreneurs, we often feel like we have to go it alone, shouldering the weight of our big dreams and daily struggles solo. But what if I told you that one of the most powerful keys to thriving both professionally and personally is cultivating deep, authentic friendships with fellow women in business? Today, I want to share why seeking out a “business bestie” can be utterly life-changing – and exactly how to attract these meaningful connections into your world.

Surprising Inspiration from a Cult Classic Chick Flick

At a recent dinner with some of the Leading Lady Ambassadors, someone innocently asked the table, “What’s your favorite movie?” Perhaps influenced by the sisterhood vibes in the air, I found myself blurting out, “Beaches!”

I know, I know, could I BE any more cliché? But hear me out. This 1989 film starring Bette Midler and Barbara Hershey may have a predictable plot, but it’s packed with poignant lessons about friendship that still resonate decades later.

Watching Beaches at the tender age of eight, I absorbed the message that friendship can be complex and sometimes painful, but ultimately, it’s one of the only things that truly matters. The movie planted a seed that having even one ride-or-die person who gets you can be life-saving.

Beating Entrepreneurial Loneliness with a Business Bestie

Flash forward to today, and that lesson feels more relevant than ever. Leadership and entrepreneurship can be incredibly lonely roads. We’re out here taking risks, stretching beyond our comfort zones, and handling all the ups and downs of chasing our callings.

That’s why creating your own personal hype squad of business besties is essential for maintaining your sanity, sense of self, and stamina for the journey.

A true “business bestie” is that colleague turned confidante who:

Celebrates your wins like they’re her own
Gives you tough love truth bombs when you’re stuck in self-sabotage
Reminds you of your own magic when imposter syndrome strikes
Believes in your vision so hard that you start believing in it too
Makes you laugh until you snort in the middle of a rough day
Sits with you in the suck of failure without trying to silver-lining it
Connects you to game-changing opportunities and resources

In short? Business besties SEE you, professionally and personally. They’re your soft place to land and your fiercest champions all rolled into one.

10 Ways to Attract Your Dream Business Bestie

Now, I know what you might be thinking: “That sounds great AliceAnne, but how do I actually find these magical unicorn women to add to my girl gang? I’m so busy building my empire, I barely have time to sneeze!” I hear you. The awesome news? Attracting aligned business besties is way less complicated than you think. Start with these ten simple strategies:

Attend live events in your industry. Whether it’s a conference or casual meetup, in-person connection is a business bestie breeding ground.
Join a mastermind or group coaching program. Connecting regularly with the same crew creates space for deeper relationships to bloom.
Slide into her DMs. Notice a fellow boss woman always dropping insightful gems? Start a private convo and let her know how much you appreciate her voice!
Initiate low-key coffee or coworking dates. Keeping it casual relieves the pressure and creates room for organic rapport.
Collaborate, don’t compete. Approaching peers as potential partners shifts your vibe from scarcity to generosity and shared success.
Show up to support her launches and initiatives. Be the first to boost her wins, and she’ll often reciprocate!
Offer specific, personalized praise. Shouting “You’re amazing!!!” is great, but “I loved how you did X in your recent campaign. That was brilliant!” sparks a richer dialogue.
Pay attention to who’s already engaging with your content. Frequent commenters are often kindred spirits ready to connect more meaningfully.
Ask for introductions. If your biz coach or mastermind pals rave about someone in their network, invite them to play matchmaker!
Become a business bestie yourself. Embodying the qualities you seek – generosity, vulnerability, consistency, celebration – magnetizes your dream gal pals.

Confidently Cultivating Soulful Strategy & Support

Above all, trust that your vibe attracts your tribe. When you’re willing to show up authentically, extend support freely, and create intentional space for friendship, your business besties have a way of finding you.

Soon, you’ll be giggling so hard on Zoom that you forget all about that stressful launch, giving pep talks that convince her to double her rates, and yes, maybe even singing Wind Beneath My Wings at the top of your lungs while wearing sheet masks on a girls trip. (Okay, maybe that last one’s just me…)

The point is, we’re not meant to do this business thing alone. You deserve a tight-knit crew of women who inspire you, believe in you, and remind you to put your crown back on when it slips. That kind of love and loyalty? It’s the secret rocket fuel for the marathon of entrepreneurship.

So here’s my challenge for you: Identify one action step you can take THIS WEEK to spark a new business bestie connection or nurture an existing one. Drop it in the comments so we can cheer you on and hold you to it!

Speaking of…

Come Hang with Your Leading Lady Soul Sisters!

If you’re craving deeper connections with women who just GET it, that’s exactly why I created this community. In the Leading Lady world, we believe that:

Women thrive higher when we collaborate over compete
Female friendship is a powerful force for personal AND professional growth
Vulnerability liberates us to own our unique magic
With the right girls in your corner, ANYTHING is possible

So if you’re tired of feeling isolated on your entrepreneurial island, come join the party in my Leading Ladies Facebook group and introduce yourself. Trust me sis, your business besties are waiting to find you!

And if you’re ready to take those bonds even deeper while majorly upleveling your leadership skills and success mindset? Join the wait list for the next round of my group coaching Masterclass! We spend six transformational months together developing unshakable confidence, powerhouse professional strategies, and lifelong friendships. This intimate sisterhood could be exactly what you need to break through to your next level. Limited spots are available!

Okay, Leading Lady, I hope this post inspired you to start cultivating your own crew of business BFFs. Remember, you are a MAGNET for the connections and opportunities that will take you to the top. Start embodying the supportive presence you wish to attract, and watch the magic unfold!